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When a girl grows up and sees that her friends have boyfriends, she involuntarily wonders why she is alone. The absence of a boyfriend can damage a girl's self-esteem, make her doubt her own attractiveness. In fact, having a relationship, or not having a relationship, is not an indicator of a girl's attractiveness. And women's loneliness has many underlying causes. From this article, you can find out why there is no boyfriend, what to do with it, and how to prepare yourself for a relationship with a boyfriend.

As a rule, at the age of 13-14, a girl dreams of meeting her love, thinks about relationships with men. But here you need to understand whether she is ready to enter into a relationship. At this age, love has the character of an owner - a young lady wants to have a guy as property, so that he would give flowers to his lady of the heart, admire her and give gifts. Young people subconsciously feel that a girl wants relationships for the sake of relationships, and not specifically them.

It looks something like this- “Let's date, I'm so good, beautiful and talented. You will accompany me home and take me to the cinema. " This, alas, is not a relationship. With this attitude, a girl aged 13-14 will never find a boyfriend. In order to enter into a relationship at this age, you need to understand that boys mature more slowly than girls, and when building relationships with a peer, you need to understand that he needs, first of all, a girl - a friend who shares his interests, life views, shares his hobbies.

A good move would be: go to the karate, volleyball or karting section, be keenly interested in these activities, read special literature and be able to maintain a conversation on "male" topics. After a while of such communication, the guys around will pay attention to a pretty, smart girl who has common hobbies with them. And then it's up to the little thing - to show your strengths... For example, treat him to a cake made by himself, or surprise him with a non-standard act. For example, take part in karting competitions or take part in a school physics Olympiad.

At this age, a girl shouldn't get hung up on a relationship. You should start developing yourself, finding a hobby, studying, and self-education. It is worth remembering that love is not an end in itself, but only a means to achieve spiritual harmony. Life for every woman has prepared a fateful meeting that can happen at any age.

At 13 or 14 years old, the girl is no longer small, but sometimes she is not yet ready for a relationship psychologically. She wants love - adoration, not love - cooperation.

No guy at 15-16 years old, how to answer the question?

At the age of 15 - 16, every second girl experiences a feeling of first love. It was at this age that the first love relationship... But, unfortunately, first love rarely develops into real feelings. Dating a boy at this age is the norm. But why is there no boyfriend at 15, 16 years old? Young people at this age have already gone through a period when a girl should be a friend and like-minded person. Here they choose primarily based on external features, that is, the brighter the plumage of a bird, the faster they will notice it.

Psychologists interviewed 100 young people between the ages of 15 and 16 and found out which girl they would not like to date.

So boys don't like:

• Unkempt girls, in dirty clothes, sloppy.
• Capricious, whiny and annoying.
• Smoking, drinking.
• Angry, envious and bilious.
• Indiscriminate in relationships with the opposite sex.

So, to understand why there is no boyfriend at the age of 15 - 16, you need to delve into yourself a little, if 2 - 3 years ago young people needed a smart girlfriend, now they need a beautiful picture. If a girl realizes that she really looks bad, then hard work on herself is required here. Even if at this age it is not possible to find a guy, then with a good figure and well-groomed appearance it will be easier to do it in the future.

So, when going to meet a guy, every girl would do well:

• Get rid of extra pounds, if any.
• Visit the dentist, get your teeth healed and achieve a flawless smile.
• Visit a hairdresser - stylist and choose a hairstyle that emphasizes the girl's dignity.
• Look through fashion magazines, get acquainted with fashion trends. If possible, visit a stylist.
• To understand that bad habits do not decorate the girl. You shouldn't even start smoking or drinking. Better to do sports - aerobics, sports dancing or jogging. These activities will have a beneficial effect on the figure, and on health and well-being.

Thus, by the age of 15 or 16, a girl, having worked on her appearance, has a better chance of finding a boyfriend. But do not forget about the "content". A stupid beauty is less likely to find a boyfriend than a smart girl with an average appearance.

You also need to understand that the reason for the absence of a guy is hidden not only in the girl herself, many young people of this age are simply afraid to start a relationship.

Even if relations with the opposite sex do not develop, you should not despair, at any age you can meet your love. The most important thing is to learn to understand what we expect from the relationship, and why they are needed.

Why can't there be a boyfriend at the age of 17-18, but the girlfriends do?

It's a shame when your seventeen-year-old girlfriends go on dates and you don't. Well-groomed, pretty, well-read, fluent foreign language, but all alone. But Masha from the technical school meets a handsome man. Does the situation sound familiar? Yes, then read on.

If most girlfriends date boys, then they've found someone to complement them. So, each person seeks to build a relationship with a person who is as similar to himself as possible. Therefore, at the age of 17 - 18 it is worth looking for someone close to you by interests. If you learn French, sign up for public lectures at the French cultural center; if you love football, go to the stadium more often and attend the matches of your favorite team.

At this age, guys are also looking for a like-minded girl. It doesn't matter to them how she looks, how long her legs are. But the interesting inner world of the girl, light character and cheerful disposition will be much more significant.

A girl of any age should know that angry and envious men scare men away. If you want to date a guy, become a kind darling. All in your hands.

Also, guys 17 - 18 years old pay attention to girls who are passionate, find something to do - a passion to which you are ready to give your time. Be it: volunteering, animal protection, study, painting or collecting. If at 13 - 14 years old guys were looking for a friend, at 15 - 16 years old beautiful appearance, at 17 - 18 years old they need a girlfriend - a comrade-in-arms.

But you need to understand what kind of companion a young man needs - if the circle of his interests is beer and discos, then decide for yourself, you are ready to become his ally. It is better to look for a guy where there are promising and socially adapted young people - a university, sports clubs, language clubs, volunteer organizations, communities of one hobby.

There is no beloved boyfriend at the age of 19-20, what is wrong with me?

When a girl wonders what is wrong with me, there really is a problem. Here you need a consultation with a psychologist, he will help you understand yourself.

But, as a rule, the only reason (which is highlighted by all experts) is why there is no young man are the girl's overestimated requirements for her chosen one.

The Cinderella complex may appear here, which, in fact, is nothing, but is waiting for the prince. And he refuses good relationships, but ordinary guys, not astronauts, not football players and not world-famous actors.

A young woman in search of a guy from 19 to 20 years old should reconsider her attitude towards the opposite sex, understand that there is no ideal and highlight male qualities that are important and secondary. This requires two pieces of paper, a pen or marker. Then on one piece of paper is written "yes", and on the other "no". And on them it is written what can be accepted in a man and what not. If there is more “no”, then a thorough analysis is needed as to why this is so. For example, if a girl does not agree to put up with the betrayal of her beloved or drug addiction, then this is normal, but if she is annoyed by the presence of brothers or blue eyes, then one thing needs to be understood here - little things in appearance and lifestyle are not so important. By narrowing the scope of the search for a boyfriend, the girl herself scares off potential suitors.

I’m beautiful, but the guy isn’t around, so I’m Scary?

Am I not worthy of Love?

Beautiful does not mean happy. A girl may be unsympathetic, but at the same time she is happy in a relationship. Every woman is worthy of love, but for this it is necessary to acquire adequate self-esteem, to know your strengths and weaknesses and to understand that every woman is worthy of love.

There is one thing to accept yourself psychological exercise- it is tough, but effective. To be loved by others, you need to learn to love yourself. Every day for 20 days, it is necessary to do exercises to increase women's self-esteem and understanding of the aspect that any woman is worthy of love.

This requires:

• Every morning, in front of the mirror, make 3 compliments to yourself, from the heart. Not just "I am cute", "I have beautiful expressive eyes", "I am an interesting conversationalist", "I am worthy of the love of a wealthy man." Praise yourself and wish yourself to meet a good man.
• Write your main virtues on a piece of paper, then re-read them, and after each repeat "I am worthy of love." For example, "I have a chess category, I am worthy of love", "I quit smoking last month, I am worthy of love."
• Practice "mirror smile" regularly - take out a pocket mirror every two hours and sincerely smile at your image.

20 days of this training works wonders, more than 80% of women who passed it were able to let love into their lives and find a man.

A simple test for a girl in psychology

"Am I ready for a relationship?"

To understand whether a girl needs a young man right now, American psychologists have created a simple test "Am I ready for a relationship." Answering 5 simple questions and having calculated the points, the girl will be able to understand whether he is ready to meet the guy, or until the time has come yet.

Test:

• Do you agree with the statement "Without love, life is meaningless"?

B) Partly

• Where can you meet the man of your dreams?

A) On the Internet

B) At a disco, in a night club

C) Almost everywhere

• What attracts men most of all?

A) Appearance

B) Material well-being

C) His personality and lifestyle

• Imagine your first date, what it will be:

A) Going to a cafe or restaurant

B) Meeting in the city, visiting the entertainment center

C) I don’t know, we’ll come to an agreement ourselves. (I'll leave the choice to the man)

• Why do you need a relationship with a man?

A) We all have .., this is the norm

B) Alone is boring, no one to walk with?

C) It's time to build serious relationship and start a family.

So, for each answer (A) 1 point is awarded, for the answer (B) 2 points, and for the answer (C) 3 points.

If you scored 5 to 7 points:

You do not have a clear idea of ​​why you need a relationship, you are not yet ready for a mature relationship of cooperation and love. If you want to meet a man, it’s only because of the example of friends and relatives. Take your time, your time to fall in love has not come yet. Don't worry, you have everything ahead of you.

7 to 10 points:

For you, having a relationship is status, prestige. You should not consider a man as property and protection from all adversity. In a harmonious relationship, there should be both support and care from a woman. Your selfishness gets in the way of building lasting relationships. Chances are, you are dating men, but the relationship is too short-lived. Learn not only to take, but also to give.

10 to 15 points:

Not married yet? Strange, usually women with such life position completely ready for a relationship and happy in a marriage or long-term relationship. If you are still alone, do not despair, you are completely ready for a relationship.

Never had a boyfriend, how to find him?

How to find a guy? Search - create a profile on a dating site, go on dates, visit crowded places where men "congregate": stadiums, fitness centers, cafes, cinemas. You can ask your friends to introduce you to your brothers and friends. This method is very effective and simple.

You can turn to a potential matchmaker. In search of a guy, the most important thing is action, you can't wait for fate to knock on the door itself.

How old is it already difficult to find a boyfriend or a man?

Girls, if you are asking this question, then understand that even at 70 you can find a man. The main thing is to understand that you are worthy of love, you are able to give your love to a man, you want to be happy and make a man happy with yourself.

There is a misconception that after 35 it is almost impossible to find a man, but look how many women are around who have found a couple after 35, even after 50 and 60 years.

Age is not a criterion... It's important to understand what a relationship is for and what you can bring to it. If a woman is always ready to support, inspire and love a man, then at any age it is not a problem for her to build harmonious relationships.

Ok Google! Why don't I have a boyfriend yet?

Top Answers

Both Google and psychologists will give almost the same answers to this question.

Here they are:

• Look in the wrong place

Remember, girls. Men do not go to discos and cafes to get acquainted. It's easier to find a guy at a fitness club or through mutual acquaintances.

• No boyfriend because you're looking for a prince

And they are only in fairy tales. Lower the bar on requirements. Get yourself in order, men love well-groomed ladies.

• Engage in self-development

Become interesting as a person. There is no boyfriend because you consider yourself unworthy of love and have low self-esteem.

And remember girls Meeting with a guy is not a goal, but just one of the paths to harmony and happiness. It is worth remembering one interesting statement "If you want to change the world, change yourself." Don't be afraid to change, improve and seek.

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Good day to all. I came here with some extremely banal and stupid question, but it is important to me - and, perhaps, it will be of interest to you.

I am a third-year student of a completely humanities faculty, I am twenty years old, and I have not and never had a boyfriend. I don't really see it as a problem or trouble; rather, it worries me simply from a theoretical point of view, like a puzzle that needs to be solved in order to find a solution to some of the more general problems of my life. No, it doesn't really surprise me. I study not only at a completely humanitarian faculty, but also at an extremely female one, and I can always see around me a statistically justified number of single girls and women. True, in fact, there were significantly fewer of them than I initially imagined, but among the available, of course, there are enough of those who are so much better and more attractive, kinder, wiser and more talented than me in all respects, that this, it seems, should remove everything questions. Just don’t understand, please, that I consider the presence of these very "relationships" as the criterion of how good a person is. This is not at all, not at all. But this is a part of life, maybe an optional, not critical, but an existing and important part, isn't it? And I really believe that there are some starting points or at least ways to evaluate kindness, wisdom, attractiveness - in short, everything that seems to be a reason to want to be with a person, to want to become a part of his life and take responsibility for him ... Each person is unique, each person is valuable; but since we all live on earth together, then inevitably we somehow compare, and if a person really cannot live alone (in a broad sense), then he must somehow choose with whom he will not be alone. Forgive me, I am very afraid that this post will come out quite huge and that I will go into a meaningless theoretical jungle, but suddenly someone can read this to the end and it turns out that I could at least a little bit express what I feel.
As for me, I'm average. Intelligence, common sense, appearance, kindness - as far as I can judge, with all this I am hardly good, but not particularly bad. Until the age of 18, I considered myself terribly ugly; now I also sometimes have such thoughts, but in general I managed to understand that there is nothing critically ugly in me, and the rest of the troubles can be solved by a competent selection of clothes, sports, healthy eating and a friendly attitude towards the world. But at the same time, there is one certain thing that I am very afraid of and at the same time I cannot help but be aware of: I am mediocrity. There is nothing in me that would be different from the hypothetically taken model of an untalented person. I am an almost perfect creative impotent. The whole childhood of rhythmic gymnastics and music school could not do anything with clumsiness and complete deafness; I can periodically write only rather bad and one-dark poems (I know that you cannot call your verbal attempts “poems”, this is not so much my immodesty as an attempt to simplify the text), and my need for this is satisfied, and not eternal, as with truly talented people. I realized that in my field I would never make the slightest weighty scientific discovery; I am not afraid of work and can do relatively good research and science articles, but by the third year the presence of "this very" in a person interested in science, you see, is already evident. In me "this very" is not. Whatever I do, it can come out pretty well - but it will never come out very good, that is, it will never pique anyone's interest. And so with all areas of personal properties and occupations that there is no point in listing, work, organization of space around oneself, creating peace in the family, etc., etc.
From the above, it would seem that it would be possible to conclude that I am globally uninteresting, and just calm down and not hope for anything, study, try to grow spiritually, develop at least some of my sides, be with my family and friends. By and large, this is what I do. But there is also the concept of "love", and it prevents me from closing this question to the end. I understand love as perhaps the most important form of manifestation of spiritual hopelessness and non-senselessness of everything (in a broad sense), taken (in a narrow sense) as an acknowledgment of this non-hopelessness and necessity in a specific person, deed, idea, image. And, if you narrow it down even more, you can reduce it to a specific person and even to a romantic understanding of your feelings for a specific person. I’m almost sure that in my life I once loved a person in exactly this sense (and I still probably do; but it doesn’t matter), and once more I was carried away in a sense very close to that described. And if I try to somehow analyze this phenomenon, I see that with all that it is decomposed into: reasons, grounds, some conditions in society and in ourselves, complexes, fears, desires - in other words, objective and explaining the appearance of this very feeling towards this particular person - with all this, there is always some area of ​​mystery in him. I mean that zone in which nothing can be explained and understood, in which, if you wish, you can find some kind of "signs", "predictions", whatever; but which serves as the main proof that this feeling is not just fulfillment social role and the resolution of physical attraction, but something related to the fact that in the world order there is meaning, beauty and truth. If at all in simple words, then I am sure that we love not for something, not for wisdom and attractiveness, but just like that.
And it cannot fail to be beautiful. From here, from this secret zone, capturing the obvious ones, a powerful layer of culture and family origin grows, from here comes the purification of low affects, faith and so on. But for me from this understanding it follows that every person can (and even should) somewhere be at least a little loved, that's exactly how awful it sounds in Bridget Jones, as he is, or, better to say, so what is the naturally beautiful grain of human nature, soul, nature, consciousness, God, embedded in it - you can call it whatever you like. Only, of course, ordinary people do not rush to each other under the influence of a mystical enlightenment - times and customs are a little different for this. It seems to me that this simple and almost low thing, which can be called a combination of “partner search”, is an inevitable etiquette-semantic component of any level of human relationships. Here, probably, this endless worldview prologue ends and the presentation of the essence of the problem begins.
I have a very short, but rather strange, probably, story " personal front"- only some kind of guerrilla-sabotage military actions are taking place on it. It begins with me bulky, not very neat and boyish at the age of 14, when for some reason my kind and almost best friend, who was at the same time the father of my courtyard comrade and, accordingly, I am almost three and a half times older. It was very scary, very painful and very upsetting. I have this very strongly imprinted in my head: April five years ago, I am writing sms from the unworthy Elabuga from the Literature Olympiad, complaining about the poorly written second round and suddenly I realize that he cannot and does not want to understand that I can do something. then do wrong and lose. Although he was always the best understanding, the best advisor, and the best way to appreciate what I was doing. Then this incomprehensibility is very quickly and very frighteningly resolved, I try to somehow explain something, nothing makes it easier, I write something very hysterical in response, I end the conversation, somehow I finish the third round, and four days later I am at home I receive a letter on the computer that everything is over and I do not need to worry about anything, but I myself made a choice. We never spoke again, and for a very long time this feeling of a slight curse from his last words did not go away, although all this, of course, is completely unnecessary mysticism. I'm probably too anxious to carry with my inner peace, but for the time being I consider it a healed, but trauma, absolutely unnecessary to anyone at such a time of life. I understand that I must be guilty of something myself, but I just can't understand what. And no, there could hardly be something of a harmful physiological passions, because by that age I could not even approximately come up with the image of a bait for a pedophile.
This is where my story almost ends. Then the whole period, which seems to be usually considered growing up, passed completely empty, apart from a few incidents, now very funny and stupid, but at that time rather unpleasant and painful. It's not that I attract perverts, I guess I just live in Russia, go to the cinema alone and use suburban transport, but why exactly me - deprived of any feminine forms, dressed in a shirt and jeans, modestly, maybe somewhat absentmindedly behaving - some strange personalities tried several times either to feel in the cinema, or to make happy in an empty train with the spectacle of their, excuse me, erect penis - my understanding is still not available. Or am I just trying to live in the world of pink elephants, and this is inevitable and evil that happens to everyone? Again: I very quickly let it go and try not to take it close, especially since I have a good stressful reaction and, in general, such situations have never carried any real threat; but after them inevitably there is a feeling of some kind of general trampling and humiliation - as if the feminine principle in me is so pitiful and unassuming, as if I can’t count on anyone’s protection and no one’s attention (even if this is really so) that you can and should just wipe your feet on me, fearing nothing and not thinking about anything, satisfy your need and move on. It sounds very funny, but here all the signs of attention to me as a woman from men as men, shown until recently, are exhausted. No one ever gave me flowers or paid me compliments in the most banal and empty sense of the word, did not speak to me in the company and did not show any interest; I understand that this is a stupid complaint that there are many such girls; please do not look at this as solely self-pity (although there is something to hide here, but not in the same proportion), but, at least a little, as a desire to understand or learn from other people how these mechanisms work and how these mechanisms are determined generally.
Then, some time ago, one of my short-lived classmates suddenly looked into my life and soon told me that he thought he was in love with me. He had a very funny motivation for this feeling (I’m not joking or distorting, almost in plain text): “I am very lonely, I don’t even have a cat, and you have always been the most modest and inconspicuous in the class, did not fit into the crowd of painted girls with dear gadgets (and this classmate of mine terribly dislikes all manifestations of this, as they say now, "majesty", "hipsterism", etc .; I just can't understand why they cause such aggression in him) and (attention!) best of all studied and fulfilled public duties ”. It was not that unpleasant for me, but somehow sad and funny to listen to this, then I completely sincerely constructed (I am ashamed of the banality, but I would hardly have been able to do otherwise) an explanation like “it’s not about you,” and our relationship peacefully turned into a regime the standard friend zone, which I would very much like to avoid, but a classmate greeted her, motivating this, again, by his deep loneliness and the absence of any obligations between us (which is very strange to me, because in this situation I feel some obligations, for that matter), as well as the fact that "it would be a real friend zone if you had a boyfriend, but you don't have one, right?" He is a very sweet and good young man, but I really have no feelings for him other than friendly ones. And the slight shock that his congratulations on the social network evoke in me on the evening of February 14, "I see, no one congratulated you, so Happy Valentine's Day" somehow hinders any possibility of the formation of these very different feelings.
I'm afraid to repeat my mom's story. She, too, did not enjoy special male attention, but she still had some, and when I was 16 years old, she was very worried that I was so ugly and no one was looking at me. She married about thirty and without special feelings, dad is almost 10 years older than her. Over time, their relationship only deteriorated, and now they almost hate each other and regularly arrange terrible scandals with insults and assault, but they cannot divorce, because they feel sorry for sharing an apartment. I am very afraid that someday, by the same age, the thirst for human warmth and to be needed will overpower my common sense, and I will run after the first one who shows any interest in me, completely without thinking about the consequences. I don't want to be as unhappy as my mom.
Probably the most natural and correct answer to this endlessly long text would be advice to become more open and friendly, not to think about any "relationships" and "attractiveness" and just try to give people a little light. I'm not very sociable; when we fight hard with my mother, she always says that I have no friends and interests (which is not true) and that there is nothing to love me for (which is most likely true, but hardly entirely my fault). I am, to put it mildly, not an ace of sociability, but I have friends. In this regard, I suffer from some self-doubt, and at some times it seems to me that if I do not contact anyone, call and write to anyone, then no one will ever remember and regret me. But in this regard, my willpower is not very developed, and I continue to call and write, I amuse myself with the fact that it seems that we all seem to be more or less good and interesting, and that they are surprisingly beautiful, and my society may not be at all either. meaningless.
Please forgive me the enormity of the text. Even if no one answers me, it still turned out to be useful as some form of active therapy. But if you are somehow interested in the problem about a fatally unattractive girl, I will gladly listen to you and answer your questions, and accept any constructive criticism of my views and actions. I'm a little confused, and I don't know how much of a problem this is; I know that sometimes I am desperately lonely and want to be at least a little vital and close to someone, but what if the person I need barely finds time to answer a letter once a month? I don't want to believe that I am really very bad; being average is pitiful and stupid, but it's not a crime ... or does it inevitably doom you to loneliness? Or do you need to "take what they give" and cost what comes out of it, just to try, how it happens? But what if, as it seems to me, they don’t give it, but throw it as a handout?

1. I am a very patient person.

I am waiting for the most beautiful thing that should happen in my life. I am not one of those who is in a hurry, because I believe that everything will be in due time. And I am preparing myself for this moment. I am learning to love myself unconditionally, so that later I can fully give the same love to another person.

2. Society does not put pressure on me.

Most of my friends have had a boyfriend at least once in their lives. Some are constantly looking for someone. One even told me: "You are already 20 - you have to find someone for yourself!" But I think I still have plenty of time, no matter what people say. Plus, I don't believe that love is something that can be found. She finds us herself.

3. I need sincere and unconditional love.

I don't need faked love and fake relationships. I need sincerity. I don't want to be in a relationship, just to be in a relationship. I want to be happy with one person.

4. I think too much.

Usually, when someone expresses their feelings for me, I worry that this is just a hobby, passion, love. Something temporary. Even if the guy keeps telling me over and over that I'm special to him, I don't feel his sincerity. I guess I don't trust people. And in the end, these guys get tired and stop trying to get me.

5. I have too high expectations of what love should be.

I admit that I may have an unrealistic idea of ​​what love should be. And I compare every feeling with this ideal in my head.

6. Guys are afraid of me.

They are afraid of my mind. I'm not bragging - that's what my friends say. I have an average IQ, but apparently my communication style scares off guys who need something simpler.

7. I love my family too much.

My parents thought that I shouldn't be distracted by guys until I graduated from university. And while they weren't too hard on it, I respect them too much to follow this unspoken rule.

8. I am constantly told what a great bachelor life.

Parents talk about this most often. They constantly remind me to enjoy my life first, because in a relationship I will no longer be able to think only of myself.

9. I don't want to waste other people's time.

If a guy shares his feelings with me, but I do not see prospects, I immediately tell him that it is better to remain friends. Some will say that this is rude, but I believe it is correct. I want to be honest and not make the person wait for me and waste their time.

10. I do not worry about the future, but I constantly think about it.

I can't help myself, but when I meet a guy, I immediately think about what kind of couple we can become and what our children will be like. I cannot live in the present moment. And therefore, more often than not, I simply refuse any relationship at all.

11. I want to be with someone I'm comfortable with.

I think this is the most important thing. After all, I have to spend the rest of my life with this person, and if I am not comfortable with him now, then how will something come of this relationship?

12. I have my own goals.

I have my own plans and motivation. And if a person clearly interferes with their achievement, then I do not even consider him as an option for a relationship.

13. I am a very busy person.

In connection with the previous point, I have a very tight schedule. In addition to my goals, my priority is family, friends, so there is little left for relationships. And in order for me to make time for someone else, it must be a truly very important person.

14. I take relationships too seriously.

I don't want to be in a relationship just out of boredom. I want this because I am ready and want to be with a specific person.

15. I already love myself too much.

It took me many years to love myself. And if some guy tries to destroy my self-esteem, then I will not allow it. I don't need anyone to break my heart. I need someone to make me love myself even more.

16. I'm used to keeping everything to myself.

I don’t share my feelings with someone I don’t trust, and I find it difficult to trust someone.

17. It seems to me that it is difficult to love me.

I believe in it so much that when a guy confesses his love to me, I doubt his sincerity and push him away.

18. When I ask someone about their love story, they tell me about broken hearts.

And that scares me. It seems that each great story love ends in a broken heart. I don’t want that.

19. I believe too much the opinion of others.

If my friends or family do not like my potential boyfriend, then he has no chance, because I believe them. I, too, begin to see him the way they see him.

20. I've waited too long.

I've waited too long for a special person, so when someone shows up, I continue to doubt that they are the one. I keep on waiting. The main thing is to wait.

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